Astrophel and Stella is a series of sonnets written by Sir Phillip Sidney. It was published around the 1580s. The sonnets are a series of love poems between the man Astrophel and his star, Stella. Astrophel has fallen in love with Stella. Many of the sonnets are speeches delivered to Stella. We learn a lot about the internal world of Astrophel but little about Stella, aside from a few clues in her actions and reactions to the speeches.
For the first thirty sonnets or
so, Stella does not return Astrophel’s love, but does not snub his affections
either. She tries to be kind, or at least he believes that she is. Eventually,
she marries another man. This does not deter Astrophel, but rather makes Stella
more attractive because her marriage is an unhappy one, and he admires her
sacrifice.
She does eventually return his
affection, but she is never overcome by it. Astrophel, on the other hand, is
increasingly more in love and tries to convince her to make love to him despite
her vows. He even steals a kiss from her while she is sleeping. She realises
that even though she loves him, she cannot continue the affair. Because Astrophel
will need to consummate his passion, she ends the affair before any improper
behaviour can happen.
We know that approximately the
first thirty sonnets were written while Sidney’s real love, Penelope, was still
unmarried and he was still at court. She never gave Sidney any overt
encouragement, but just like Stella, never snubbed his affections. These thirty
sonnets most likely comprise a year altogether as Sidney left the court,
visited his sister’s estate, saw “Stella” at the mutual family’s house, and then
returned to court.
Sidney discovers her marriage to
Lord Rich somewhere between sonnets thirty-one and thirty-three. They were
engaged to be married in their childhood, but this was broken off. Penelope’s
marriage does not make her happy, a thing Sidney notes, but this does not
diminish his passion for her. Rather, her selfless dedication to a marriage
that brings her no satisfaction is something that Sidney admires and finds
attractive.
He is often jealous of Lord
Rich’s access to her, though he knows that she is not happy. He does not feel
that her husband can appreciate her, and so he vows to win her heart. Around
the sixtieth sonnet, she begins to return his love, but only platonically. She
is unwilling to risk her reputation and her husband, and so tells Astrophel
that the only way she will return his love is if they never consummate it.
He is content with this for a
while, but as his passion grows deeper, we see his behaviour change. He cannot
help but want to be with her physically, and this desire overrides his rational
behaviour. He steals a kiss while she is sleeping, and this begins the downfall
of their affair. She is incredibly angry that he broke her trust; the sonnet
describes it as a sort of rape.
She pulls away, and her absence
torments him. It takes a toll on him, and he loves her more deeply than ever.
Around sonnet ninety-three, he admits to having wronged her, and his guilt and
sorrow are overwhelming in the next few sonnets.
We do not have much detail,
other than the kiss, for why he feels this way, but he makes it clear that the
relationship is doomed forever. She falls ill, and he serenades her under her
window to make her feel better. It has the opposite effect. She is so angry
that he would continue to pursue her even after she has asked him not to, that
she ends the relationship entirely. At the end of the series, he is alone and
isolated. He retains some measure of happiness, despite how things turned out,
knowing that his love for Stella is genuine and that she once loved him in
return.
Sidney mimics a rhyme scheme
from a famous poem by Petrarch to tell the story of his love. Just as Stella
torments Astrophel, so was Petrarch tormented by his own love, a love that also
causes him much joy. He touches on themes of love versus reason, as well as the
conflicting desires of purity and desire.
It is clear that although Astrophel’s
love for Stella was fruitless and ended, it brought him an enormous amount of
joy as well. He remains happy that Stella once loved him. His inability to keep
his love chaste ends their relationship, a point he makes in the sonnet after
he steals a kiss. Love, for Astrophel, is something that cannot be contained,
though he tries for a long time to keep Stella in his life.
Sidney introduced a new style of
poetry into England during the Renaissance, changing the way literature was
produced. In the end, he understands that although reason is well and good, he
is happier having loved Stella with abandon and knowing that she once loved him
as well.